Attention & Love are tow separate Things.

The biggest Reason for the unhappy and unsuccessful in life is that People Don't try to create their own Life and they always play the role of victim.

 Blame, Justification and Complaining are major Problems for that. and the reason most of them do is to seek attention & Love....What I believe is that it is virtually impossible to be happy when you constantly yearn for attention. because if attention is all you want, then you are always at the mercy of other people. and always begging for approvals. 

There is a huge difference between attention and love. we have to disconnect attention from love . by doing this you can love another for who they are rather than what they do for you.

Most husband & wife feel happy for what Their Spouse Do For them rather than What he or she is. That is the biggest reason Most of them are not happy. this is the truth. however most of them don't accept it.